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Part electric and part physical, your orgasm is an expression of sexual energy in the form of vibration.  

This little (or big) electric charge is ALWAYS active in your body.  Yes … even as you read this right now, your orgasm is alive and vibrating inside of you!

You are ALWAYS in a state of orgasm.  (Take a moment to feel that.)

When your father’s sperm fertilized your mother’s egg, there was a long period of silence and stillness.  Out of that stillness, something began to ||| vibrate |||   And with the vibration, one single cell turned into two … two into four … four into eight … vibrating … VIBRATING … VIBRATING into YOU.  So your body grew with the vibration of orgasm, and every living cell in your body is infused with this powerful orgasmic LIGHT.

Most people mistake orgasm for climax—these two are absolutely NOT the same thing.  

Your orgasm is the sensation that leads to an orgasmic climax.  But whereas a climax comes and goes (pun intended), your orgasm is like a body part … it’s always present.  But unlike a physical part of your body, you can never remove the vibration/energy of your orgasm from your body.  Your orgasmic energy animates your body and your life—you literally can’t live without it.

Because orgasm exists inside of your body, it’s yours.  And, no one can give you an orgasm.  And even the most sexually skilled master can’t give anyone else an orgasm, either.  This is because as your orgasmic vibration is ALL YOURS, and that guy over there has one that is all his—everyone is responsible for the vibration of orgasm in their own body.

In sacred sex practices (like Tantric sex), you can learn to share orgasm with your partner (in a sense).  But it’s more like a merging of energy.  You know when your orgasm is merging with another person during sex because it feels like making love + a little bit of magic.  It feels like a timeless state wraped up in pure emotion and sensation.  You can’t tell where your body ends and your partner’s begins, or where your sensation ends and your partner’s begins.  Bliss.

Because orgasm wants to expand, it’s constantly moving towards its most evolved state of being.  Your curious orgasm wants to discover what the next stage of life will be and where the next pleasure opportunity lies.  

There are also a few different ways that your orgasm might be identified:

  • Localized:  This type of orgasm happens in the lower body/pelvis area and is felt inside the genitals.  It’s the most physical of all the orgasms, so the sensation of orgasm is physically intense but brief (usually only seconds long).  Usually accompanied by contraction, a build-up of fluid in an orgasmic gateway (see SCIENCE section), and physical release.
  • Traveling:  This type of orgasm leaves its home base to move into different parts of the body, existing between localized orgasm and full body orgasm, the traveling orgasm begins to search for new and different parts of your body it can explore.
  • Full Body:  Also related to multiple-climax, the full body orgasm is more energetic and activates orgasm in every cell of the body.  Here, orgasmic sensation blankets and fills the entire body.
  • Energetic:  Also called a kundalini orgasm, energetic orgasms happen when the concentration of orgasm moves away from the genitals and toward the upper body (activating the energetic body more than the physical body).  These types of orgasms can last (on average) up to a half hour.

Your Orgasm’s  Superpower

Your orgasm is the source of life, the ultimate healing power.  Quite literally, your body was created with the energy of your orgasm and its function is to EXPAND LIFE.  So when you master the superpower of your orgasm, you discover an energy resource that will infuse more LIFE-energy into anything and everything you do.  

The more you focus on this energy, the more it expands wherever you need it.  When you choose to infuse your body and life with the energy of your orgasm, the life-energy in that part of your body (or life) expands.  

The superpower of your orgasm is so concentrated with this expansive life-force that the superancients cite it as being able to regrow amputated limbs.

Your orgasmic energy is useful every day, though …

Need a little pick-me-up in the morning?  Feel into the energy of your orgasm.  We guarantee it’s way better than caffeine.

Feeling low-energy, or even depressed?  Tap into the vibration of your powerful orgasm!  Feel how it LIGHTS UP your nervous system, releases positive neurochemicals, decreases cortisol, and relaxes you.

Mastering the superpower of your orgasm is exactly where your sensual practice fits in.  

STOP … FOCUSPAY ATTENTION … because the vibration of orgasm in you is so powerfully essential to your life.  Learn to cultivate this warm liquid light, and see how life expands for you!

The Science of Orgasm

Here we’re going to get a little quantum science, and sexy-spirit-science, too.  Because whereas our western culture doesn’t know a lot about the incredible vibration of orgasm, eastern cultures have spent thousands of years studying this awesome vibration.  Why not learn from the best, right?

Tantrikas believe that the vibration of orgasm is an expression of source, which means that the orgasm in your body is the same orgasm that’s in everyone else’s body.  This isn’t the same idea as, you have ears and they have ears, so most people have ears and human ears are pretty similar from person to person.  NO.  

What we mean by “the same” is:  the energy of orgasm in your body is made up of the exact same stuff that the energy of orgasm in that person’s body over there is made up of.  It’s literally exactly the SAME stuff.

We’re sure you’re wondering how this can be possible …

Well, your incredible orgasm is governed by the mysterious laws of quantum forces that operate at the level of sub-atomic particles.  

Quantum theory says that super tiny stuff can never sit perfectly still, and can actually be in two places at once.  Tantrikas would argue that super super tiny stuff (like the stuff your orgasm is made of) can exist in every place at once, too.

In the Tantric tradition, orgasm is a part of every living cell. It’s also believed to have the strongest concentration of vibration (like a home-base) at the end of your vagus nerve.  Your vagus nerve is governed by your parasympathetic nervous system, and wanders from your pelvis, all the way to the area just between your ears inside of your skull.

Your orgasm wants to explore every area along this nerve.  Full Body Orgasm is about allowing your orgasm to expand deeper into your entire body via this directed nerve pathway.

There’s another major confusion about orgasm and release.  Like climax, most people believe that orgasm and release are also the same.  Well, they are definitely not.  

Your orgasm is a nervous system function, while your release is mainly a glandular and circulatory systems function. Your nervous system needs open-ended freedom and the others need control.  Tantrikas learn to master their body by making the nervous system more available to sensation, and controlling their blood pressure and fluid build-up.

Places in your body that are stimulated by the vibration of orgasm, engorge and release (fluid)

WOMEN:  Clit, G-spot, cervix, uterus.

MEN:  Penis, prostate.

FAQs About Your Orgasm

I have to use a vibrator to feel my orgasm!

If you HAVE to use a vibrator in order to connect to the sensation of your orgasm … you absolutely need to stop using the vibrator.  Remember, orgasm is a vibration too.  The harsh artificial vibration cancels out the intricate vibration of your orgasm.  

Too much harsh vibration also damages your nervous system’s response.  Artificial vibrator stimulation will always only keep orgasm in it’s most base and physical level … which can totally be fun, too (sometimes).

If you want to experience the magic of orgasm, stop using a machine with grinding gears to climax as fast as you possibly can!  And start using alchemical tools like a crystal wand, to play with the energy of your orgasm (while appreciating the physicality of it, too).  Do that and you’ll expand your orgasmic world x10!

I can only feel my orgasm if I watch porn.

Porn with orgasm is kind of like the vibrator situation but with brain chemicals.  Porn addiction creates a tricky dopamine trigger that can only satisfy itself with more of itself.  Science proves that the best way to heal porn addiction is by going cold turkey … NO MORE PORN … ever.  At least not for a good long while.

Once you quit, you slowly begin to reestablish your connections to pleasure using different methods.  It can take a while to retrain your body to respond to different kinds of pleasure.  But it will totally work if you stick with it.  And then you can start feeling your orgasm, FOR REAL!

I have never had an orgasm.  What should I do if I want to experience this?

The best way to start having orgasms is to play with the sensation of arousal in your body + your imagination.

You also want to be extra certain that you’re not seeing yourself from the outside in (experiencing a form of sexual anxiety).  If you are, recognize that your inability to feel into your body might spring from a place of fear. And head over to the Sexual Anxiety page to do some sexual healing on yourself.

Also consider that orgasm has a range of sensation, and the sensation of arousal (before climax) is orgasm too.  You might need to give your body a little more time to get used to the sensation of orgasm in its more subtle form, and to absorb those more intricate sensations before you appreciate the bigger sensations.  We suggest checking out the Full Body Orgasm Guide to learn how to relax your body enough so you can start feeling sensation deeper (and FULLER).

I have great orgasms when I masturbate, but I don’t when I’m with my partner.  How can I experience orgasm with my partner, too?

Orgasm happens when your body is open and relaxed, so if you’re putting an emphasis on your climax when you’re with your partner, you’re missing out on so MUCH other juicy sensation.  But when you’re by yourself,  you are relaxed, less focused on performance and more focused on experience.  

Your climax will come when you’re with your partner, but it will probably happen just a little differently than when you’re by yourself.

Sex Rx

Your orgasm is FULL of possibility, and there are a few sensual techniques and tools that you can try out to experience a fuller, deeper arousal experience.

  • Deep Breathing
  • Pelvic Floor Pumps
  • Meditation
  • Any Sensual Practice (like the Full Body Orgasm Sensual Practice)

Looking For More?


We’re always researching and learning more about the power of our orgasm, so here are a few articles and tools we’ve come across and just had to share!

The Superpower Sex Full Body Orgasm Guide

This is what your brain looks like during an orgasm (Vox)

How Orgasm Can Dull Pain (The Atlantic)

What Is Orgasm Synesthesia? Meet the People Who See Colors When They Orgasm (Bustle)